
We’ve covered some fundamentals – but how can CHROs find their own voice?
You don't have to be unique, but I do think we need to be authentic!
It's hard to put on a facade and be someone else. My leadership persona has been shaped and informed by so many other people that I've watched, some who have been role models and some who have been bad exemplars of leadership.
Through that, I've forged my own identity. Some of it is me, but the rest is me adopting leadership approaches that I've seen work well, or behaviors I know I want to avoid. I've had the wisdom and experience of 30 years to do that, but even now, I'm still studying. Being a lifelong learner is an important journey for being a leader.
It’s a study of human behavior, understanding what works well for you through trial and error, which is sometimes very painful. But it's also very real. You make a couple of mistakes, and you know what works for you and what doesn't. Ask for feedback and be curious about your impact on others.
What are the best ways for CHROs to develop their skills?
There are lots of opportunities to learn without formal training experiences. I belong to a number of different HR communities, and they have been hugely helpful. And the more diverse your network, the richer your learning experiences. You learn from other people's perspectives and how they see the world differently. You can take the same skill and have it brought to life differently through another leader, which opens your eyes to the many ways that leaders can show up.
A leader’s persona is not only multidimensional, it's also multi-contextual. It doesn't show up the same way for every conversation
A leader’s persona is not only multidimensional, it's also multi-contextual. It doesn't show up the same way for every conversation. In addition to learning from other people, if you develop your network, if you practice self-study by reading articles and books from various sources, you'll expose yourself to a broader way of thinking and ultimately, leading.
The CHRO post can be a very lonely job, and the best cure for loneliness is to go out and develop new friendships. Not only is it one of the best ways that CHROs can continue to grow and learn, it makes the work less isolating and more graitfying.
What are you prioritizing for personal development as an HR leader this year?
I stepped down from a full-time role in December, and I'm now with a much smaller nonprofit organization. It's helping me to find balance. I continue to use my craft and practice the discipline I've loved for the last 30 years, but now also find the time to pursue other personally meaningful endeavors.
I'm working on a 1000-piece puzzle, as frustrating as that is. I'm going to learn how to paddleboard this summer. I'm thinking about writing a book. I want to travel more. I want to sleep in. I want to exercise. I want to do all the things! As we so often say, I'm putting on my own mask first, so I am better able to help others.
We neglect our wellbeing at our peril and to the detriment of the people that we serve and support, so for me, this year is all about self-care.